Meditation Monday – Taking My Meditation Practice on the Road

action-adventure-blur-386009If you ever want to put your meditation practice to the test, take it on the road for a family vacation.  Make sure you plan an eight to nine hour car ride through heavy traffic areas.  Oh, and make sure at least two teenagers are in the backseat squabbling over boundary lines every few minutes.  Then, when you get to your destination, put same teenagers, yourself and your spouse into one hotel room for a week.  At mealtime, try to find agreement as to where and what to eat.

My vacation week coincided with week four of 8 Minute Meditation – Quiet Your Mind. Change Your Life, by Victor Davich.   (Amazon associates link) I was practicing the “This Magic Moment” meditation technique.  For each unwanted thought that wandered across my mind while I was meditating, I labeled it “past” or “future” and released it so as to be in the present moment.

Now, when you’re on vacation with three other people in a hotel room and on the go most of the day, it’s hard to find a quiet place to meditate in the traditional sense.  I’m not comfortable assuming the lotus position, hands resting on my knees and maintaining blissful obliviousness while chaos reigns around me.  (I saw a man doing this once in the women’s shoe department of Lord & Taylor.  I was impressed and amused.  How the heck did he maintain such amazing focus? More importantly, if he could teach that focus to other men stuck in the shoe department with their significant others, he’d be revered as a guru.)

Because I was on the go and had little to no privacy, I meditated wherever and whenever I could.  At the pool, when I put down my magazine and closed my eyes, I focused on the sounds around me.  In the car, when I could have lost it and made tensions worse, I was silent and breathed.  While I was getting a facial, I focused on the smells and sensations.  When a thought tried to intrude, it was quickly labeled “past” or “future” and sent on its way.

Each meditation technique I’ve practiced over the past four weeks, Watching Your Breath,  Naked Sound MeditationNoting Body Sensations, and This Magic Moment, came to my rescue when I needed it. At first, I felt frustrated that I couldn’t meditate the same way I did at home. It didn’t take me long to realize, however, that my meditation practice isn’t meant to be rigid – I’m not training with the Olympic meditation team here.  Using the technique that worked, at the moment it was needed, reduced my stress and kept me calm.  Once I was calm, relaxation was a short step away and I was able to really enjoy the rough and tumble of all that togetherness.  We had a great time!

Week five in the book is dedicated to “Gracious Declining” meditation.  The focus is on easily recognizing and stopping rambling thought streams.  This is a quick outline of the process:

1.     Find a comfortable position, upright, but not tense.

2.     Set your timer to eight minutes.

3.     Close your eyes.

4.     Allow your body to relax and rest your attention on your breath.

5.     When a thought wafts through your mind, visualize it as an “uninvited salesperson, knocking on your door.”

6.     Be aware that the thought is demanding your attention, but you can graciously decline to grant it that attention and send it on its way.

7.     Return your attention to your breath.  When another thought comes knocking, recognize it as uninvited and again, graciously decline and send it on its way.

I’m finding as the weeks go on that I’m falling into whatever technique works for me at the moment.  I feel I’ve learned a lot and the program is only half completed!  Please let me know how it’s been going for you and specifically how you’ve applied what you’ve learned to the reality of your everyday life.

Survival > Existence,



Luci Weston's picture

Monday Meditation

This is excellent advice. Too many times we put boundaries on how something “should” be done instead of using whatever part of it works for us at the time. In sharing your experience with mediation, it reminds us that peace can be found at any time or place because it comes from within. Thanks!

Debbie's picture

Thanks Luci!


That’s so true that peace comes from within – and especially true when you’re travelling in a small car with the family!  I really see a difference in how I react to external stuff because of meditation.  I’m not perfect at it, believe me, but I’m definitely better at being in the moment and accepting than I was before meditation came into my life.  Just one more gift of cancer that I appreciate so much.



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